More nuanced version of the "golden mean" (Aristotle)
"Diagonalizing the Polarization" refers to the process of mitigating, resolving, or transforming a situation where two opposing sides hold incompatible or conflicting viewpoints. In such a situation, it is often difficult for the two sides to find common ground or to reach a mutually agreeable solution. The goal of diagonalizing the polarization is to find a way to break out of this stalemate and to create a new perspective that transcends the existing polarities.
One way to diagonalize the polarization is to reframe the problem in a new light, by exploring the underlying values and motivations of each side and finding a common ground. This can involve identifying areas of overlap or common ground, or exploring alternative perspectives or solutions that have not been considered. By diagonalizing the polarization, you can help to create a new and more constructive dialogue between the two sides, and to find a way forward that addresses the needs and concerns of both.
Thread from Timothy Keller describing this approach: